Porn Myths Busted to Avoid Disappointment

Our parents avoided the topics of explaining sex to us and schools may prefer to pretend that sex doesn’t really exists, but when we are sexually inexperienced and curious, porn is always there, ready to answer our many questions about what happens when two consenting adults hump on each other. Porn is an educational resource that has created a fantasy of human sexuality. It didn’t only teach us how two people can make love, it has built unrealistic expectations.

Pornography is a rite of passage for most men who watch it. It is quite fascinating how people can watch porn videos without sound. Porn leads to disappointment when it is time to actually have sex with another person. There is a measureless gap between what porn teaches a man and what really happens in the bedroom. Below are the few things to never actually expect to copy from porn scenes to the bedroom.

1) Perfect bodies. Porn videos tend to use young and healthy participants. If they aren’t the video producers use tricks of camera angles and lighting to hide any flaws. They use pretty women and guys who look like they live in a gym. How are you going to compete with that if your body is out of shape? This kind of expectation from you to look a certain way and your partner to have a hot body leads to disappointment in the bedroom.

2) Instant hardness. Have you ever wondered how come the man always appears with a strong erection? In porn videos men are rarely seen in a flaccid state. They never allow us the viewers to see the actual penis size without an erection. This builds an expectation that men should have big and strong erections instantly when they engage in sexual intercourse. If you have noticed, the moment a woman walks across the screen, the guy is already hard enough to crash diamonds. The truth is that most porn productions use a ‘fluffer’ – a woman whose job is to get a man hard before he walks onscreen. What happens to be ‘instant’ erection is really just an illusion. Don’t take that knowledge to the bedroom, you are simply inviting disappointments.

3) She gets off fast. Lets be honest, how many men have complained about their women not reacting to their touches? Sometimes it would be like you are not doing a great job as she doesn’t jump when you touch her, even on her most sensitive spots. It is different in porn movies where women seem to feel as though every tough is orgasmic and they appear to have numerous orgasms throughout one session. The truth is very different. Women usually need a very specific type of stimulation, for much more than just a few seconds, in order to get turned on – much less to get off. So don’t get disappointed when your woman isn’t feeling your touches and compare it to what you have seen in porn movies.

4) Noise, noise, noise! For those who watch porn with sound. A porn video is filled with acoustic stimulation, which is part of why most guys love it so much. And who wouldn’t? The noise the way it comes out, it is like an affirmation that the guy is doing a great job. The problem is that women aren’t really going to make noises like that in the bedroom. Sure, they might be enthusiastic and make some noise, but the sounds in a porn film will not likely be replicated in the bedroom. To avoid being disappointed don’t ever expect her to make the same sounds that you have heard in porn movies. Some women instead of making noise they cling to the sheets or your back with their long nails. Check the scars in your back to confirm this statement. Men think that when she isn’t making sound, to them it means she isn’t enjoying it. That is not true. Are men also supposed to make noise? Let us know in the comments section.

5) Money shots. The money shot is the final signature move in the porn film industry. An interesting stat: porn actors ejaculate somewhere other than the vagina 81% of the time. According to Millward’s porn study, 87 percent of porn actresses will “take a facial” at least once in their careers. The problem with this is that not all women will agree to you ejaculating on their body or face. So you need to get her approval beforehand. When you pull out you need to find somewhere to do your money shots. You can have a towel nearby to do the money shots on it to avoid wetting the bed sheets.

6) Crazy moves. Take note of the ‘fluffer’ and the illusion she creates. The same thing is true of a woman who can do wild things in porn, like anal sex without any preparation, or double penetration. In each case, the situation has been prepped and carefully coordinated off-camera. The video you are watching has been edited to suit the situation. Remember this: porn is just an illusion designed to arouse the viewers. Don’t take everything you see and try to attempt it at home. Some crazy moves will leave you with neck or back injuries if you try to replicate them.

Staying ready for the real thing

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Reference:

https://www.bustle.com/…/99024-9-porn-myths-that-have-nothi…
http://jonmillward.com/…/deep-inside-a-study-of-10000-porn…/