Making Time For Self Pleasure

We talk a lot about the bad and give little time to the good. When a person thinks of self-pleasure, they feel ashamed. On this post we will talk about self-pleasure. Yes, masturbation! The health benefits of masturbation have been written about already and apply to everyone. We are going to repeat that too. Masturbation has historically been a very negative thing. We want to present a different perspective about masturbation. Over the years all sorts of anti-masturbation ideas have come ...
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The Best Way To Avoid Condoms Breaking

Not to spoil the fun, but if you’re sexually active, you should be concerned about sexually transmitted infections (STI’s). More than half of the people are likely to have STI at some point in their lives. Although some STIs are curable, some aren’t and you could be left managing the infection for the rest of your life. You must use a condom whenever you are having sex. Condoms prevent the spread of STIs while simultaneously protecting against unwanted pregnancy. The most commo...
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Sexual Performance Anxiety

Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, but it's tough to have fun if you're constantly worrying about how well you're doing. We get a lot of questions from our fellow friends in our Facebook group who are having sexual problems with their partners. It is a real struggle that every man goes through. Since this is a very private matter that many of us hide from and are ashamed to talk about. We salute you brave men who are taking a stand and seeking advice, help and treatment. Even though ...
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How To Connect With Your Partner Through Communication

Sex, no matter how stigmatized and alienated it is in the society it remains one of the most important, common and favourite of all the life experiences. Great sex doesn’t come easy it takes some Chit Chat Sessions. Sadly this much needed practice barely exists in the bedrooms. Talking about sex becomes essential if a couple wishes to have an enriching and mutually satisfying sexual relationships. A partner that is introverts and feels shy, guilty and even scared when it comes to expressi...
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Five Secrets To A Happy Relationship

In life there is nothing permanent. There is always change. Changes in life are not always easy to adjust to. It takes so much of an effort, time and energy to adjust to change. “To exist is to change, to change is to mature and to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly.” Unfortunately we can't escape from change so let’s accept the change. When a couple decides to get into a relationship, they are getting into something they know nothing about. relationships come with a whole ...
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Alternatives To Medication For Erection Problems

Are you a big fan of Viagra and find yourself not being able to live without it? We have good news for you. This need not be the case. Visit your fruits and veg market to buy fruits, vegetables, nuts and olive oil. Reduce the consumption of meat and processed food items. Replace cooking oil and butter with olive oil. We understand that olive oil is expensive but anyways you are going to use the money that you were supposed to buy Viagra with. The additional challenge is to exercise ea...
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What Causes Vaginal Dryness?

Us men when we want it, we want it now. No majika jika (playing around). Hence when it comes to sex men and women. A man will want a quickie, and fast forward to the action just like that. As long as the blood has pumped and the revolver is full. Azishe!!! For her it is a different story. She wants to get into the mood of sex first. You need to go on a hunting trip to find what arouses her. Kiss her neck, massage her and play with her. While doing that, that’s when she will start to feel...
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Does Smoking Kill Your Sex Drive?

Dagga has been made legal in South Africa. People were in celebration when this was announced. Now you can smoke dagga legally. It is such great news for dagga smokers. Do you understand what that means to you as a dagga smoker? Dagga is used for medicinal purposes, so they say. How about we discuss the topic of how cigarette can affect your sexual performance. This is not only about male smokers, also females are affected too. Are you that bra whom whenever he goes to the toilet h...
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What Is Ejaculation?

That quick, exciting and ticklish feeling that you can’t control while having some intimate time with your lover. Do you know what it is called? We are going to talk about what ejaculation is and identify common causes of early ejaculation. We are also going to answer questions such as what causes ejaculation problems, what to do when you have early ejaculation problem and where to go to seek help. First we will explain what ejaculation is and the process that leads to ejaculation. Ej...
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8 Everyday Exercises to Help You Last Longer Between the Sheets

You can improve your performance level by doing regular exercises. Did you know, there some exercises that you can do to improve your sexual life? You can do some exercises that can help reduce early ejaculation. A lot of men are suffering from early ejaculation which is caused either by physical or psychological problems. You need to improve your sexual performance and stamina and the only way to do that is to exercise. Kamasutra positions require both partners to be fit and active. ...
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